Intentionaly,Unconsciously, Mean, or just Insensitive?

Must Read: Flamboyant Psychologist Adejoro Olumofin

writes on guys giving ladies false hope

Psychologist Adejoro Olumofin aka "Doktor" Mofin writes on

guys giving ladies false hope. Read below...

Letter to the Fellas. Volume 3. (Do we Intentionally give

ladies false hope? Or is it unconscious?).. Why do Ladies

always have to ask us one of the most famous questions

ever "Who am I to you?"

As guys deep inside our "Id" i.e our reservoir of Emotions

and Feelings ; we know that a Lady may not be the one for

us or be our type yet we stand in her way of moving on

and getting a man.

We play the role of Boyfriend to a lady who we don't see as

our Girlfriend. We fill her head with Imaginary love, buy her

nice and expensive things, introduce her to our family, meet

her own family yet she doesn't know you're on gear 1 while

she's on gear 6.. I've been guilty of this as well and I hope

I've learned to know better.. But my Question is do we men

STRING ladies along Intentionally ? or is it unconscious? or

are we just Mean and Insensitive?..

Both men and women are guilty of stringing people along

but men have a Phd in Stringing Affairs because of our Ego

and Machismo.. Some men see having a lot of ladies around

them as an accomplishment. Most times the ladies who are

victims to this lost years of their lives being enslaved to a

guy in Imaginary Love just to find out that he's not that into

her or he's engaged to another lady who is his true type or

preference.

As fellas I know we all have that selfish trait and want to be

needed and adored by ladies even if its at their detriment..

Please let's try to respect the emotions of ladies and realise

that sometimes it takes more time for a lady to move on

than a man.. Also, to the ladies ; if you have to ask a guy "

WHO AM I TO YOU?" More than 4 times then rethink that

relationship, also try to look for the signs that a guy is just

stringing you along because the more time you spend with

him the more emotionally attached you will be.. I must also

say it takes a strong man to put his selfishness aside and let

a lady move on with her life if he knows he doesn't have

serious plans for her..

Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to

step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship

that isn't defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he

tells you who you are to him. Its a form of Relationship

Insurance. # DoktorMofin # Psychology # LetterToTheFellas

Vol. 3

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